I can be a defeatist sometimes. I throw games when I presume I have lost. I walked away from relationships when they turned sour. I have been known to walk WAY out of my way, both literally and figuratively, to avoid a confrontation. I have been trying very hard not to avoid my problems and face them head on. A few months back I surrounded this little weed with stones outside of my job. It gets tiny purple flowers on it and seems to never give up. I walked over to check on it today. Guess it showed me.